Soccer, Fitness, and Family Connection — for Real-Life Parents

Simple, parent-led guidance to help you get fit, support your child’s soccer journey, and stay connected — without overwhelm or pressure.

Take it from Us...

  • You don’t need more drills, more travel, or more stress.

  • You need a simple way to stay active, be present, and guide your child with confidence.

  • That’s exactly what Soccer Fit Family is built for....families like us.

What does Soccer Feel Like For You Right Now?

You love your kids and you love seeing them with a ball at their feet…but there’s a lot coming at you.

  • You want to move your body more, but between work, meals, homework, and tournaments, the days disappear.

  • Your child is just starting soccer and you’re not sure what “good development” looks like at this age.

  • You want soccer to build confidence and character, not pressure, burnout, or constant comparison.

  • You’re trying to sort out rec vs. club, coaches, costs, travel, and you don’t want to make the wrong decision.

If you're nodding your head to any of this, you're in the right place.

Youth sports moves fast. Childhood doesn’t.

We help parents slow things down, stay involved, and use soccer to build strong bodies, confident kids, and real family connection.

Who This Is For

  • Parents who want to stay active with their kids, not just watch from the sidelines

  • Families with kids roughly ages 5–12 who are starting or early in their soccer journey

  • Parents who value connection, confidence, and healthy habits over trophies

  • Busy moms and dads who want simple, realistic guidance that fits real life

  • Parents who want to understand youth soccer without becoming overwhelmed or obsessive

Who This Is Not For

  • Families looking for shortcuts, rankings, or guarantees

  • Parents who believe more training, more pressure, or more yelling is the answer

  • Win-at-all-cost mentalities that sacrifice health or relationships

  • Kids who need specialization, travel teams, or elite performance right now

  • Anyone expecting someone else to “fix” their child without parent involvement

What We Help You Build

My mission is to help you build a healthy, connected soccer journey that fits the kind of family you want to lead.

START TOGETHER

Get Moving.

Play Together.

A simple, fun way to bring soccer and fitness into your family's routine.

$49

per month

  • Soccer Fit Family video library

  • Age-Appropriate soccer activities

  • Parent fitness workouts

  • Parent + child games and challenges

  • Monthly Family Playbook

  • 10-20 minute sessions for busy families

  • Progress trackers and family challenges

  • New videos and activities added regularly

Family Field Kit

Included with a 3-month committment

Simple cones to help you get started

Cancel anytime on month-to-month membership

MOST POPULAR

GROW TOGETHER

Build Skills & Confidence.

A personalized plan designed around your family, your schedule, and your goals

$99

per month

  • Everything in Start Together

  • Personalized Monthly Family Game Plan

  • Personalized parent fitness recommendations

  • Personalized soccer skill focus for your child

  • Specific SFF videos, games, and workouts selected for your family

  • Monthly progress assessment

  • Confidence and parent-coaching resources

  • Monthly group Q&A / Family Coaching Session

  • Family progress adjustments as your child develops

Family Field Kit

Included with a 3-month committment

Cones + agility ladder

"Your plan is personalized - you don't have to search through a library wondering what to do next. I'll point you toward the right activities for your family each month"

FULL FIELD COACHING

Navigate Youth Soccer With Confidence

Get personal guidance from Bobby to make the best decisions for your child's journey.

$199

per month

  • Everything in Grow Together

  • 45-minute private coaching session with Bobby every month

  • Personalized family game plan

  • Monthly progress review and plan adjustments

  • Child development and confidence guidance

  • Club, coach and team-fit guidance

  • Tryout and soccer pathway support

  • Priority questions between sessions

  • Priority scheduling

Family Field Kit Included

Cones + agility ladder shipped when you join

Limited to a small number of families so I can provide personal support.

Start With a Simple First Step

Get the Free Family Soccer Starter Kit

If you’re not sure where to begin, start small. I put together a free Family Soccer Starter Kit to help you take the first step without adding more chaos to your week.

  • 3–4 backyard or driveway sessions (all under 20 minutes)

  • A simple warm-up you and your child can do together

  • A “First Soccer Season Parent Cheat-Sheet” bonus so you're not guessing whether to join Rec or Club soccer

You don’t need special equipment. You just need a ball, a small space, and a willingness to show up.

We can help you create a positive environment that is healthy, safe, engaging, supporting, and challenging for children...physically & mentally

PHYSICAL

Abilities players need to compete, including speed, agility & strength

MENTAL

Family skills & strategies to help young players build confidence

TECHNICAL

Skills that allow players to become more comfortable with the ball

TACTICAL

Concepts to increase awareness & decision making on the field

Why Listen to Me?

My name is Bobby. I’m a stay-at-home dad of three, a referee, and a former Division I player. In high school I was blessed to earn a college scholarship, become a First-Team All-American, and be named Gatorade Ohio Player of the Year.

I’ve also been on the other side of success. I quit soccer my senior year of college, and later I had to shut down a car dealership that put my family into financial distress. Those moments taught me humility, resilience, and what really matters: family, health, and staying curious and coachable.

Now I spend my days helping my kids and other families use soccer as a tool for connection, confidence, and growth. Soccer Fit Family is built on that lived experience—not hype, not theory.

  • 35+ years around the game as a player, coach, and referee

  • Dad of three soccer kids at different ages and stages

  • Focused on family-first, development-first soccer

Most kids don’t quit the sport — they quit the experience.

"Many kids don't 'quit sports' - they quit the experience. The average child stops playing by about age 11, often after fewer than three years.”

When You're Ready for More Support

Every family is different. Some parents just need a few ideas to get started. Others want a steady guide in their corner for a full season.

That’s why I offer a Parent Game Plan Call where we talk through your child’s situation, your schedule, and your goals. From there, we can decide together if one of my coaching program is a good fit—or if you just need a few simple next steps.

A Connected Parent Wins Every Time!

Frequently Asked Questions

What services does your soccer and fitness program offer?

The Soccer Fit Family program includes one-on-one parent mentoring with Bobby to help guide you through this journey. It provides a personalized soccer development and fitness plan, Health and Wellness guidance, and resources to help you navigate and understand the soccer world.

What if I've never played soccer before?

Many successful coaches have never played soccer before. This program will teach you the basics of the game while helping you to communicate, encourage and help your child develop fundamental soccer skills and coordination exercises.

How often do I need to practice with my child?

This program emphasizes quality over quantity. We all need to utilize our time effectively. We aim to build new habits with 10-20 micro doses of play and fitness sprinkled throughout the week. Longer sessions will naturally occur over time as you create a fun environment with your family.

Can I customize my program?

Yes, our plans are individually tailored to meet your family where they are in their soccer journey. Whether you've never kicked a ball or have played and want to take your skills and fitness to another level. We work together to identify your soccer and fitness needs to obtain your goals.

What equipment do I need for soccer and fitness exercises?

The only piece of soccer equipment you need to start is a soccer ball. To enhance your experience we can recommended additional equipment like cones, a fitness ladder and small goals as your engagement level deepens over time.

Changing the Game Project

Title: 3 Words Every Athlete Needs to Hear

One simple phrase that builds confidence, lowers pressure, and strengthens trust—especially after tough games. A quick reset every sports parent can use.

Aspen Institute State of Play Report 2024

Title: Youth Sports Facts...Why Play Matters

Discover the physical, mental, social, emotional, cognitive and academic benefits to kids whose bodies are in motion.

Healthychildren.org

Title: Just Breathe: A Simple Mindfulness Reset for Kids

Quick breathing + mini “reset” breaks can help kids calm their body, focus their mind, and handle pressure better—on the field and at home.

If you want to commit to having fun and getting fit while teaching your kids soccer, I provide practical guidance with personalized support every step of the way. Let’s build a healthier, stronger family together.

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(214) 253-9395

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